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Author:  FILMO [ Sun Jan 14, 2018 9:20 am ]
Post subject:  Some help for zwackerm (Dating and picking a woman)

Yeah it seems you are in the relationship/dating hell again.

Here is the video with all the information you need when looking for a woman.
And you are blessed to have youtube in your age an all the cool bros worldwide to share their wisdom with the young men!


Author:  zwackerm [ Sun Jan 14, 2018 10:25 am ]
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Um, thanks.

Author:  stuffp [ Sun Jan 14, 2018 11:19 am ]
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Or if you like reading; this is a great book: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Game:_Penetrating_the_Secret_Society_of_Pickup_Artists

Author:  Price [ Sun Jan 14, 2018 3:30 pm ]
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Just imitate Buffalo Bill in The Silence of the Lambs and you are all set.

Author:  Rev [ Sun Jan 14, 2018 3:36 pm ]
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Price wrote:
Just imitate Buffalo Bill in The Silence of the Lambs and you are all set.

Price yet again with a great advice :thumbsup:

Author:  Groucho [ Fri Feb 09, 2018 4:48 pm ]
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He's a Republican. They don't have a very good understanding of women. So until he cures that, don't expect much.

Author:  zwackerm [ Sat Feb 10, 2018 2:46 am ]
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Groucho wrote:
He's a Republican. They don't have a very good understanding of women. So until he cures that, don't expect much.

Yeah it’s not like there’s tons of Republican girls in my area. Oh wait...

What don’t republicans understand that the liberals do?

Author:  Algren [ Sat Feb 10, 2018 3:28 am ]
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Such an infantile statement by Groucho.

Author:  zwackerm [ Sat Feb 10, 2018 1:38 pm ]
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Algren wrote:
Such an infantile statement by Groucho.

He is the worst type of self righteous, ignorant SJW.

Author:  Groucho [ Sat Feb 10, 2018 3:11 pm ]
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zwackerm wrote:
Algren wrote:
Such an infantile statement by Groucho.

He is the worst type of self righteous, ignorant SJW.


Ooh, I must have touched a nerve with the sensitive snowflakes.

Author:  zwackerm [ Sat Feb 10, 2018 3:15 pm ]
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Groucho wrote:
zwackerm wrote:
Algren wrote:
Such an infantile statement by Groucho.

He is the worst type of self righteous, ignorant SJW.


Ooh, I must have touched a nerve with the sensitive snowflakes.

You’re obviously sensitive that there are people who even exist that disagree with you on anything

Author:  Shack [ Sat Feb 10, 2018 6:10 pm ]
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Never go full libtard

Author:  zwackerm [ Sat Feb 10, 2018 6:14 pm ]
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Lol, it was just such a random and childish attack. Did Groucho take his bitchy pills?

I have plenty of girl-friends. Just no girlfriend. While I certainly have lots to learn about being in a relationship, I think I have a pretty good idea concerning women, not to mention from my sisters.

Author:  Groucho [ Sat Feb 10, 2018 6:19 pm ]
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My original point was simple:

You want to attract women? Here's how not to do it:

"Hi, I belong to a group that believes you cannot make your own decisions about your body, that you should not be paid the same as a man, that you should not be believed when you report sexual abuse, and you should thank the lord when you get raped because it was God's will. Hey, where are you going?"

I just meant if you want to attract women, you should respect them. And being a Republican and supporting Republicans means the opposite of that.

Author:  Dr. Lecter [ Sat Feb 10, 2018 8:39 pm ]
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Umm, even though I am as far removed from supporting Republican views as I can be, that would mean that Republicans stay single and don't procreate. That, in turn, would mean, that, at some point, that go extinct. Which, I'd say, is not true. It is this kind of generalizing statements that makes the divide between the sides bigger than it has to be.

This is just counter-productive.

Zwackerm might have a problem with girls. But the problem is not being Republican. The problem is just being fucking him.

Author:  Algren [ Sat Feb 10, 2018 9:01 pm ]
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Dr. Lecter wrote:
Umm, even though I am as far removed from supporting Republican views as I can be, that would mean that Republicans stay single and don't procreate. That, in turn, would mean, that, at some point, that go extinct. Which, I'd say, is not true. It is this kind of generalizing statements that makes the divide between the sides bigger than it has to be.

This is just counter-productive.

Zwackerm might have a problem with girls. But the problem is not being Republican.


EXACTLY.

Especially bolded part.

Author:  zwackerm [ Sun Feb 11, 2018 1:20 am ]
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Groucho wrote:
My original point was simple:

You want to attract women? Here's how not to do it:

"Hi, I belong to a group that believes you cannot make your own decisions about your body, that you should not be paid the same as a man, that you should not be believed when you report sexual abuse, and you should thank the lord when you get raped because it was God's will. Hey, where are you going?"

I just meant if you want to attract women, you should respect them. And being a Republican and supporting Republicans means the opposite of that.

Lol what republicans have you met? I don’t believe any of those things. None of the republicans I know do either.

You’re fucking insane

FYI, the one “date” I’ve been on I did not disclose my political beliefs, though I could tell she was on the left. Belle is right wing like me; that certainly wasn’t my problem.

My main problem is I’m a coward who doesn’t want to just ask girls out and go on awkward first dates. Most of my friends who have girlfriends were friends first, which is my goal because there’s so much less pressure than on a date.

Author:  Algren [ Sun Feb 11, 2018 3:01 am ]
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zwackerm wrote:
My main problem is I’m a coward who doesn’t want to just ask girls out and go on awkward first dates.


So, you're like most people.

Author:  zwackerm [ Fri Feb 16, 2018 10:28 am ]
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I actually think one of my problems is I am too obsessed with finding a girlfriend, and that's not attractive. The way you attract a woman is by being passionate about life and your interests. When the main thing you think about is how much you wish you were in a relationship, even if you don't talk about it necessarily, you will lack the passion you should have for the things in life that are actually interesting.

I really need to get passionate about my major and do more than the bare minimum when I turn in schoolwork, keep up with politics and current events, watch movies and TV shows, read the books I've wanted to get to, get my bible reading done, try to write the books I wanted to, practice my viola, finally get around to learning the piano/guitar, sing, listen to the music I love, keep going to the gym, getting stronger and better at sports, go on some of the trips I've wanted to and just absorb as much of life as I can. I feel like my life right now is sort of stagnant and boring; I do the same things day in, day out. I'm not interested in my life beyond finding a girlfriend, and I'm sure that it shows.

Author:  Algren [ Fri Feb 16, 2018 11:40 am ]
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zwackerm wrote:
I actually think one of my problems is I am too obsessed with finding a girlfriend, and that's not attractive. The way you attract a woman is by being passionate about life and your interests. When the main thing you think about is how much you wish you were in a relationship, even if you don't talk about it necessarily, you will lack the passion you should have for the things in life that are actually interesting.

I really need to get passionate about my major and do more than the bare minimum when I turn in schoolwork, keep up with politics and current events, watch movies and TV shows, read the books I've wanted to get to, get my bible reading done, try to write the books I wanted to, practice my viola, finally get around to learning the piano/guitar, sing, listen to the music I love, keep going to the gym, getting stronger and better at sports, go on some of the trips I've wanted to and just absorb as much of life as I can. I feel like my life right now is sort of stagnant and boring; I do the same things day in, day out. I'm not interested in my life beyond finding a girlfriend, and I'm sure that it shows.


Yes. :thumbsup:

Author:  Dr. Lecter [ Fri Feb 16, 2018 11:47 am ]
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Jesus, yes, definitely yes. Especially in Algren's version.

Author:  zwackerm [ Fri Feb 16, 2018 11:50 am ]
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Well, no. Christian girls find guys who are well versed theologically very attractive.

Author:  Dr. Lecter [ Fri Feb 16, 2018 1:30 pm ]
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Maybe you should widen your circle.

Quote:
I'm not interested in my life beyond finding a girlfriend


This is genuinely the saddest thing I have read all week or so. Don't mean it as a dig.

Author:  Shack [ Fri Feb 16, 2018 1:50 pm ]
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I think you're on this track anyways, but try to spend as much time with girls you have things in common with as you can. When a girl falls for you it's more likely going to be someone who thinks the same way you do and therefore feels like you understand them. Honestly all the girls I've had the most feelings for, feeling connected with them and my body knowing we had things in common, came before I actually found out anything about them or any of their interests

Author:  zwackerm [ Fri Feb 16, 2018 2:25 pm ]
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Dr. Lecter wrote:
Maybe you should widen your circle.

Quote:
I'm not interested in my life beyond finding a girlfriend


This is genuinely the saddest thing I have read all week or so. Don't mean it as a dig.


Yeah, I mean it was hard to admit to myself. I came to the realization yesterday and I'm trying to do something about it.

I had lunch with Ariel today and we just talked about our passions pretty much for a good time after we discussed how I should conduct myself around Mario and Belle now that they've broken up. It's really not hard at all, just after being obsessed with Belle and then Belle and Mario for such and extended period of time, I sort of forgot how to care about other things.

And about widening my circle, I am making more of an effort to talk to non Christians, but I know a relationship with a non Christian wouldn't work, it's just too important to me

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