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Author:  Chippy [ Tue Apr 25, 2017 7:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

Didn't answer my question.

Author:  zwackerm [ Tue Apr 25, 2017 7:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

I think if I were gay id be more superficial as there would really be nothing like children to bind us together. So if I were gay and to get married, they would have to be the full package. Otherwise I'd see no reason to tie the knot.

As I'm currently into women, I'd say I'd be willing to date anyone 5 or higher. They don't have to be drop dead gorgeous, but they'd have to be at least somewhat attractive. At least until I'm 40 and still unmarried.

Author:  Jack Sparrow [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 2:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

Chippy and Shack trying to bring zwackerm out of closet :funny:

Author:  zwackerm [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 8:59 am ]
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Dunno why they want me to be gay so badly.

Author:  _axiom [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

They just want you to be yourself.

Author:  Chippy [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 10:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

zwackerm wrote:
I think if I were gay id be more superficial as there would really be nothing like children to bind us together. So if I were gay and to get married, they would have to be the full package. Otherwise I'd see no reason to tie the knot.

As I'm currently into women, I'd say I'd be willing to date anyone 5 or higher. They don't have to be drop dead gorgeous, but they'd have to be at least somewhat attractive. At least until I'm 40 and still unmarried.


So a woman can be more "ugly" to you, as long as she can bear children? Do you really think a child will strengthen your relationship?

It sounds like you already have a rock solid relationship with this friend of yours. No children necessary!

Author:  zwackerm [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 10:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

Chippy wrote:
zwackerm wrote:
I think if I were gay id be more superficial as there would really be nothing like children to bind us together. So if I were gay and to get married, they would have to be the full package. Otherwise I'd see no reason to tie the knot.

As I'm currently into women, I'd say I'd be willing to date anyone 5 or higher. They don't have to be drop dead gorgeous, but they'd have to be at least somewhat attractive. At least until I'm 40 and still unmarried.


So a woman can be more "ugly" to you, as long as she can bear children? Do you really think a child will strengthen your relationship?

It sounds like you already have a rock solid relationship with this friend of yours. No children necessary!

Children are quite necessary to me. I dream every day of holding my own children in my arms.

Why didnt you date your male friends? You got along didn't you? Why are you so shallow and care that they're men as long as you care about each other?

Because you weren't fucking gay. And neither am I.

Author:  Chippy [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 10:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

I probably could've if the time ever came where I wasn't pursuing a woman. When I graduated high school I almost immediately started dating my first wife. Then after getting divorced I took time off, dated a few times, and then met my current wife.

I was never in your position of caring about a friend so much that I wanted to live with him and was disappointed that he didn't want to live with me. If I was, I would have had a look internally and seen that I was into a relationship with him.

I'm trying to have a discussion with you, and you're just getting angry. Maybe do some reflection.

Author:  zwackerm [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 10:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

Chippy wrote:
I probably could've if the time ever came where I wasn't pursuing a woman. When I graduated high school I almost immediately started dating my first wife. Then after getting divorced I took time off, dated a few times, and then met my current wife.

I was never in your position of caring about a friend so much that I wanted to live with him and was disappointed that he didn't want to live with me. If I was, I would have had a look internally and seen that I was into a relationship with him.

I'm trying to have a discussion with you, and you're just getting angry. Maybe do some reflection.

It wasn't going to be just me and him. It was going to be me, him and 2 or three of our other friends.

I was just excited because this year I lived with a roommate all year who didn't give a shit about me, and I'm not going to be able to choose my roommate next year either. I'll probably still live with the other guys junior year, but I don't think they've care about me as much.

But I'm glad you're so open minded and progressive. Good for you for being willing to date dydes even when you aren't attracted to them.

Author:  Chippy [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 10:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

Who said I wouldn't be attracted to them? The thought never crossed my mind.

Author:  zwackerm [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 10:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

Chippy wrote:
Who said I wouldn't be attracted to them? The thought never crossed my mind.

I think you said previously you'd rather become a trans lesbian than have sex with men in this thread.

Author:  Chippy [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

You'll have to do that research for me.

Author:  zwackerm [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

Chippy wrote:

So either become a woman, or only have sex with men forever?

I'd take the vagina.

Author:  Chippy [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 12:01 pm ]
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Never said I would rather become a transgender woman than have sex with men. I said I'd rather do that than have sex with ONLY men. I'd choose bisexuality over either.

Author:  zwackerm [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 12:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

Chippy wrote:
Never said I would rather become a transgender woman than have sex with men. I said I'd rather do that than have sex with ONLY men. I'd choose bisexuality over either.

I would choose that too. But are you really bisexual if you're willing to have sex with men, but feel no attraction and have not done any sexual acts?

Author:  Chippy [ Wed Apr 26, 2017 12:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Starting at University!

I would say no.

Author:  zwackerm [ Tue Sep 05, 2017 7:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Second Year of University!

Here's a question concerning dining hall etiquette.

I am trying to become good friends with these two girls (not a boyfriend, they're both already taken). We're already friends to an extent through our Cru club and we've eaten together before and get along great. We even had a three hour brunch yesterday. Then I saw them tonight in the dining hall and they were alone. I thought about asking to join them, but I was afraid of asking to join them because I don't want to smother them or drive them away (which has happened in the past.) But I think they like me as a friend ( I don't think we would have sat talking for three hours if they didn't.)

Odds are this will happen again and I'll be conflicted again. It's really hard to make new friends when you're afraid of being a bother/annoying. And with other people too.

I just worry that maybe they want private time with one another (they're roommates, very close and do everything together since early last year.

Author:  Algren [ Tue Sep 05, 2017 9:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Second Year of University!

Wow, you have no confidence. Just go and sit with them. Make a joke of it. Who cares. You really need to give less fucks about stupid social situations.

Author:  zwackerm [ Tue Sep 05, 2017 11:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Second Year of University!

Algren wrote:
Wow, you have no confidence. Just go and sit with them. Make a joke of it. Who cares. You really need to give less fucks about stupid social situations.

Well thanks.

I've just rubbed people the wrong way before and I'm afraid of doing it again. I have deep trust issues for which I'm seeing a counselor.

Author:  Algren [ Tue Sep 05, 2017 11:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Second Year of University!

Oh, you're one of those. ok

Author:  Iseedasky [ Wed Sep 06, 2017 3:47 pm ]
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First year and I already started hating it, maybe I'm not made for it :(

Author:  zwackerm [ Wed Sep 06, 2017 4:07 pm ]
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Iseedasky wrote:
First year and I already started hating it, maybe I'm not made for it :(

Are you younger than me?

Author:  tree and a half [ Thu Sep 07, 2017 4:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Second Year of University!

You've handled yourself quite well amongst KJ's pack of passive-aggresive trolls and pseudo-intellectuals - I expect a good outcome for the zwackerm experiment.

Author:  zwackerm [ Thu Sep 07, 2017 8:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Second Year of University!

tree and a half wrote:
You've handled yourself quite well amongst KJ's pack of passive-aggresive trolls and pseudo-intellectuals - I expect a good outcome for the zwackerm experiment.

Thanks Brad!

Author:  zwackerm [ Sun Oct 22, 2017 3:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Second Year of University!

I'm so mature now. If this was last year, I'd certainly have posted a big personal crisis I'm going through right now, but I've exhibited excellent restraint.

I'll let ya'll know the outcome of the personal crisis if it turns out positive. Stay tuned..

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