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zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 20340 Location: Where they shot Knock at the Cabin
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Re: Second Year of University!
Thegun wrote: Zwacks. Your mindset is definitely getting worse.
I just don't understand how someone can be very religious and just take glee in someone's depression or failures or hopes that they get worse. That's like joining a circus and saying your talent is sleeping 20 hours a day. That's not what I meant. I'm being very careful to avoid being too prideful. I just really think he needs to grow up, and he's not learning the easy way. Maybe he needs to learn the hard way.
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Sun Jan 28, 2018 4:35 pm |
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Algren
now we know
Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2004 9:31 pm Posts: 67032
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Re: Second Year of University!
zwackerm wrote: Shack wrote: Have you said you're sorry? More times than I can count lol. But did you mean it?
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Tue Jan 30, 2018 4:14 am |
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Thegun
On autopilot for the summer
Joined: Thu Oct 21, 2004 10:14 pm Posts: 21632 Location: Walking around somewhere
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Re: Second Year of University!
Exactly! Zwacks has done his best to paint this guy as a dickhead, and outside of stealing your crush, he is not in the wrong in any way. But him trying to paint this picture that a supposed friend tried to sabotage his relationship and he should get over it, and everyone agrees.
“He’ll learn it the hard way”
What is that? Guy doesn’t like you, nor does he have to.
_________________Chippy wrote: As always, fuck Thegun. Chippy wrote: I want to live vicariously through you, Thegun!
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Tue Jan 30, 2018 8:34 am |
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zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 20340 Location: Where they shot Knock at the Cabin
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Re: Second Year of University!
Algren wrote: zwackerm wrote: Shack wrote: Have you said you're sorry? More times than I can count lol. But did you mean it? Yes. I loved this guy. He was one of my best friends (or I thought he was).
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Tue Jan 30, 2018 11:06 am |
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zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 20340 Location: Where they shot Knock at the Cabin
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Re: Second Year of University!
Well Belle tells me that Mario has no problem with me apparently. Wonder why he doesn’t think it’s a good idea to tell me that.
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Wed Jan 31, 2018 12:14 am |
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zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 20340 Location: Where they shot Knock at the Cabin
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Re: Second Year of University!
And after much excruciating waiting, Mario reaches out to me. We will be meeting up later today.
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Thu Feb 01, 2018 2:59 pm |
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zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 20340 Location: Where they shot Knock at the Cabin
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Re: Second Year of University!
Eh, it's about as worked out as it's going to get. Me and him are going to try to be friends again. He's still jealous, but that's probably not going to change any time soon. He's obviously just a jealous person. I have no plans to see Belle alone anytime soon, but if we want to it's not his business.
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Thu Feb 01, 2018 7:26 pm |
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Thegun
On autopilot for the summer
Joined: Thu Oct 21, 2004 10:14 pm Posts: 21632 Location: Walking around somewhere
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Re: Second Year of University!
How is he Jealous? Sure it's his business if his girlfriend is going to hang out alone with a guy that use to, and obviously still fantasizes about her.
_________________Chippy wrote: As always, fuck Thegun. Chippy wrote: I want to live vicariously through you, Thegun!
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Thu Feb 01, 2018 10:35 pm |
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Shack
Devil's Advocate
Joined: Sun Jul 31, 2005 2:30 am Posts: 37974
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Re: Second Year of University!
Stop hanging out with Belle when he's not there. You can still be her friend just by spending time with both of them at once
_________________Shack’s top 50 tv shows - viewtopic.php?f=8&t=90227
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Thu Feb 01, 2018 11:16 pm |
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zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 20340 Location: Where they shot Knock at the Cabin
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Re: Second Year of University!
Shack wrote: Stop hanging out with Belle when he's not there. You can still be her friend just by spending time with both of them at once I don't really even want to. I'm just mad he doesn't trust me considering I've never given him any reason to think I would go behind his back. He's gone behind MY back at this point more times than I can count. He only says he doesn't want me alone with her, which I'm usually not anyway, so it's not a big deal. I currently have no plans to see her alone. The only reason I would see for that to happen would be if everyone else went home for the weekend and our choice would be to either be alone or with each other. But I don't expect he'll let that happen, either she'll go visit him if he goes home or she'll visit him if he goes home. So there's really nothing for him to worry about. He told me he doesn't think anything will happen, but he is still uncomfortable with it just cause. Maybe he thinks I'll fall for her again, or she'll fall for me eventually if we get too close? She has other male friends that he's not jealous of, I don't know why I'm so different. She's gorgeous and I'm sure other guys think so as well. But she thinks he's the bee's knees and he has nothing to worry about. My guess is he has not told Belle to not see me alone. I don't plan to tell her that either. Ariel and Belle don't want me enabling him or letting him dictate my friendship with her. They told me to not let him manipulate me or agree to not see her.
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Fri Feb 02, 2018 12:12 am |
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zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 20340 Location: Where they shot Knock at the Cabin
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Re: Second Year of University!
Oh my God Mario and Belle broke up I’m dead I died and went to heaven. I can’t even fucking process it.
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Thu Feb 15, 2018 9:52 pm |
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Dr. Lecter
You must have big rats
Joined: Sat Oct 16, 2004 4:28 pm Posts: 92093 Location: Bonn, Germany
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Re: Second Year of University!
Yeah! Now you can finally ask Mario out.
_________________The greatest thing on earth is to love and to be loved in return!
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Thu Feb 15, 2018 10:06 pm |
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stuffp
Keeping it Light
Joined: Wed Apr 08, 2015 8:06 am Posts: 11201 Location: Bright Falls
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Thu Feb 15, 2018 11:21 pm |
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zwackerm
Hold the door!
Joined: Sun Jun 01, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 20340 Location: Where they shot Knock at the Cabin
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Re: Second Year of University!
Poor Mario. He sacrificed a lot for this relationship that didn't work out. Not only did he lose her, he's lost her friends that were also his friends. Not because they don't like him, but because of just how uncomfortable he feels. He's not exactly what I would call a person who faces problems head on. I'm still there for him, but it's awkward and we rarely text/ hang out anymore. He ignored his male friends while he was with her, so he only sort of has them, and while most of them are only a little disappointed in him, there's one that has NO sympathy for him.
He went from being relatively popular and well liked to either losing or hurting all of his close friendships. It sucks for him, and I feel mildly guilty continuing to hang out with our friends without him, but also at the same time, I don't miss him getting all the attention. It's very conflicting.
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Wed Feb 28, 2018 10:21 am |
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