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So I take it you only have one ticket then, because that would have solved everything if there were 2. You could take the girl somewhere other than the party she doesn't want to go to.

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Yeah just the one otherwise that would have solved everything.

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So, talked to any women lately?


Heh... I did start talking to a girl through an online dating site. I just hope she exists. And is a girl.

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I'd guess you have about a 50/50 chance. :P

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I hope so!

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Good luck. I have friends that met online & ended up married

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My aunt met her husband online, they have been together like 10 years now. 10 years in person anyway, no clue how long they talked online first.

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So I FINALLY went on a date last night. With a girl I met online. For my first real date ever, I think it went well.

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So I FINALLY went on a date last night. With a girl I met online. For my first real date ever, I think it went well.


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That's great :) how do you feel??

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Feel good. It was very weird for me. I've never done anything like it before. I mean, it was just dinner, but it was nice. I think I did well. Made her laugh a lot, tried to limit the awkward silent moments. But man was I nervous.

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Very good :) cheers to more dates

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Because I'm probably a chick on the inside, I'm probably reading too much into this...

Friends with this girl for 8-ish years now, she was friends with my ex and now she is not because of my divorce. I've always been attracted to her. So last night she invited my and my friend out for her birthday with like 8 other people. Went out, dinner, comedy show, club for drinks and... dancing. We all got pretty drunk, and her, her roommate, my friend and I got a cab to their apartment. My friend couldn't make it, so I paid for a cab for him to go home. She asked if I was still coming over and I did.

But then nothing happened. I went over, hung out, and then went to bed. She said doing anything wouldn't be in anyone's best interest, whatever that means. So... did I just blow it? Did she unknowingly lead me on? Should I try and pursue something, or just stay friends?

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I mean, it's not like we hang out all the time, but I've known her for so long, I just... don't know.

This is where more relationship experience would be helpful.

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Thanks! :thumbsup:

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How drunk were you guys, maybe she felt uncomfortable doing anything since you guys have such a long history. Though from my experience, alcohol helps a lot more in those instances. All is not loss. but I'm a little confused Chip. A few answers can help.

1. You said you met her online, but you've known her for 8 years?
2. Did she know the first one was a date? If you've known her so long, she may have just thought it was a catch up dinner? Did you try to kiss on the first one and make your intentions known?
3. A birthday thing can and cannot be a big deal? Relying on your answer to 2, it could technically not be considered a date either. Di you get her a gift?
4. Did you sleep together in the same bed, or did you take the couch?

PS, I had no idea you were married, I just figured ex meant ex, haha. You're not doing things too badly. But to quote the 40 year old virgin, you should have went after a few hood rats first, and then work up your confidence to the girl you liked.

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So what happened to the girl you met online and went on a date with? I thought you said you thought it went well?

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So what happened to the girl you met online and went on a date with? I thought you said you thought it went well?


lol, she was busy this weekend. It did go well! I'm sure I will see her again. I wasn't expecting a situation like this.

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How drunk were you guys, maybe she felt uncomfortable doing anything since you guys have such a long history. Though from my experience, alcohol helps a lot more in those instances. All is not loss. but I'm a little confused Chip. A few answers can help.

1. You said you met her online, but you've known her for 8 years? Different girls, lol
2. Did she know the first one was a date? If you've known her so long, she may have just thought it was a catch up dinner? Did you try to kiss on the first one and make your intentions known? Sorry for being confusing
3. A birthday thing can and cannot be a big deal? Relying on your answer to 2, it could technically not be considered a date either. Did you get her a gift? This wasn't a date. Just a bunch of friends going out.
4. Did you sleep together in the same bed, or did you take the couch? Couch :( Though maybe I should have requested the bed. But again, even being drunk I'm still a pretty shy guy. No way would I have ever asked.

PS, I had no idea you were married, I just figured ex meant ex, haha. You're not doing things too badly. But to quote the 40 year old virgin, you should have went after a few hood rats first, and then work up your confidence to the girl you liked.


Honestly, I know my big problem is being such a quiet guy. I know I don't make the right moves, because I try to think things through first instead of just going with something.

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There are some girls that like quiet guys. They are probably the quiet type themselves for the most part, so who makes the first move?

At some point you had to have figured out a way to talk to a girl, I mean you did marry one. How did things start with your wife?

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Well she was part of an extended group of friends, and then when I moved out of my house and needed to live somewhere, I got an apartment with her and another one of her friends. And it just grew from there.

Ain't nobody got time for that.

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Oh I've got it! Post an ad for a roommate and maybe you'll end up with a roommate like Jess from The New Girl. You could be Nick. Didn't you say you were Nick, you're just Schmidt online?

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Hah! I did say that... And that's pretty much it.

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BAM.

Went on a date last night. And it went awesome.

Will definitely be seeing her again.

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Awesome, Chip. :thumbsup: :hug:

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